oh ho...when the last time i blogged?!
haha, just been through the first month of semester! awesome month so far, wonderful friends, awesome roomie..studies...not to bad so far!...but just had a little tiff with my parents?!?!
haha, well i mean i shouldnt be laughing about having tiffs with them, but...hey...i am reflecting...
u see, when i am in singapore, i seem to be so use to private life that includes them....but somehow, now that i have been alone for like what, 2 year? i am having a personal private life, a family private life...i duno wats the deal with having two private life, but hey....i needa re-define their role in my life... i mean they not only support me financially, being there giving me moral support and giving me advise on any issues....i think, i am old enough to er..control my own life?? I mean, i am still my daddy and mummy's girl, but hey, we grow up dont we...i cant always have my mum buying my intimates for me, and my dad buying the ugliest coat for me and expect me to wear them like they are nice. I have my own life, my own ideas...no complains if i am 12...but NO.
so. its not that i dun need them anymore, but the sky is high and the emperor is far, i know what i am doing and i am good with it. omg, i sounded so rebellious?!?!?! haha, i am so late...ppl start at 16, i start at 22. hahaha.....part and parcel of growing up. No complaints there.....
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今天希望可用华语将整篇打完！！！
在家里又那么一点点无聊哦！上了几乎三个月的班，天天忙得焦头烂额，可是却乐在其中，学了不少做人的小技巧， 学了不少职场的小知识。好像又认识了自己，发觉自己好好胜，不能输，也输不起。每天活在别人的期待中，多少都有点辛苦，可是却觉得过得还满充实的，真是哟个不折不扣的工作狂。好担心以后毕业了还会这样子，工作大于天！！ 有一点点期待，还有一点点害怕。咳，工作的事以后再说吧，现在好好的毕业就够了。。。
最近妈妈又开始问我男朋友的事了！！！总是每当妈妈问时，才会想起这件事来，太迟钝了！可是一个人够了那么久，发现突然有个人在身边太不习惯了！！ 而且书中经常提到阿，爱情，是美丽的痛苦。。多慎人啊！！ 我倒觉得它有点像罂粟花，看着美丽，好奇的尝一口，发现感觉不错。。等效果没了，便苦苦得还想要，那种痛苦让人难以忍受， 折磨得许多人体无完肤。。。不觉得很恐怖嘛。。。既然常常连地奔跑，都快成了空中飞人！！ 妈妈，只是希望有个人把握牢牢的邦在家，哈哈，其实也不是什么大事，反正我的心永远都在有妈妈爸爸的地方嘛，怕什么。。。
阿又要去美国了，想想又能够自有一点点了。 人好奇怪毫矛盾哦，自由的时候总想有个人管一下，反之有人管了以后总希望自由。。一方面喜欢穿漂亮的衣服，却又舍不得花钱。。。最后一个星期了！！ 但愿可以开开心心的过，最近有点神经质，老是胡思乱想，可能前一阵子把工作塞满了头脑，一停后，脑子空空的，便开始瞎转悠，哈哈，担心自己可能会烙下什么病呢！！
好开心哦！！终于用华语写完了。。。
Silly................
My friend told me that girls who tends to go overseas early from china tends to be a little silly and simple, unlike the girls who have always been in China, smart, practical, high eq. I never thought it would be true, never. I thought had pretty high EQ, (maybe not IQ...bleh). Never. But after a few minor details and incidents which i didnt really put it to heart, i realize that, YES i have super low EQ. I dont know how to control my emotions and behavior. I dont know how to act differently to different people. I realize I am really bad a people skill. Maybe I am not that bad, but neither am i good or anything. I feel so bad. I feel like my life is too comfortable to realize that I am actually a person who do not know how to interact with people. I am still the only child at heart, getting used to all the pampering and expect people to adhere to me. gotta change...........................
ps: gotta write something, or i will explode.
如何成为男人缘超旺的万人迷
文：苏芩
女人最想成为什么样的女人？
漂亮的女人？性感的女人？博学的女人？事业成功的女人？
都不是，其实，女人最想成为的女人是“有男人缘的女人”。
接连好几位女性朋友来信诉苦：“为什么我成不了抢手的女人呢？为什么周围的男人愿意跟我成为好朋友、好哥儿们、甚至是无话不谈的知己，但就是拒绝和我成为恋人？”
不可否认，世界上就是有许许多多这样的女孩子，样子不丑，脾气不坏，条件不错，但就是命里的桃花总不开，男人爱跟她交往，勾肩搭背称兄道弟，但一挑起感情话题，立马把她当成绝缘体，永远不来电。
眼看着周围一个个相貌学历不如自己的女人纷纷成了幸福的小主妇，她们也哀叹：“我的春天什么时候才来到？！”
有些女人天生就是没有男人缘，再漂亮也逗引不起男人的荷尔蒙。当然，男人们管她们叫做没有女人味的女人。
什么叫没有女人味？
也许是看恐怖片的时候两只眼睛冒出兴奋的绿光；也许是外出游玩时从不喊累，一个劲儿地冲冲冲；也许是一起吃饭时拼酒把同桌的男人拼到了桌子底下……总之，“野蛮女友”登陆中国以来，数以万计的女人找到了人生理想，誓把野蛮进行到底。
说归说，更多的女孩子缺乏男人缘，不是因为“野蛮行为”，而是因为一些性格上的问题。开朗的女孩子讨人喜欢，但只有也开朗也娇羞的女孩子才让男人迷恋。举个很简单的例子，《红楼梦》中的林黛玉毛病忒多，任性多疑又刻薄，可照样迷死贾宝玉。薛宝钗样样出色，宽容大度博学广识，可就是没有男人缘。
男人喜欢什么样的女人，你该明白了吧？
可以自私一点，但一定真实一点；可以任性一点，但一定可爱一点；可以成熟一点，但一定娇柔一点……
在恋爱问题上，幼稚的女人比成熟的女人抢手，善于表露自己情感的女人比善于隐藏自己情感的女人受欢迎。别疑惑，男人就这副品位。
毕竟，社会中的女人越来越强，社会中的男人越来越不自信，宝钗式的女人令人敬，但不足以招人爱。
想招男人缘，记住：做男人的妹妹，别当男人的姐姐！
也许下一季，就是你的桃花红了！
http://suqinbk.blog.sohu.com/114262700.html
花木兰被识破女身后的结局
文：苏芩
电影《花木兰》开拍在即，赵薇版花木兰英姿飒爽的扮相也已露面。当然，作为中国历史上最著
名的“武才女”，花木兰的知名度亦是非同寻常的高！女扮男装替父从军，十二年征战沙场立下
战功，不是个一般的女人。可以想象，这个花木兰必定极为剽悍。
《木兰辞》中的花木兰卸甲归乡后，战友们终于知道了她的女子身份，到这里，文章戛然而终。
每次读到这里，都好奇：公布了真实性别后的花木兰命运走向如何呢？
苦思冥想，大胆为她猜测了几种结局。
猜想一：成为女中楷模、去全国各地巡回演讲。当然，这个可能性较低，如果让个女人四处传授
军事知识和经验，男人的面子实在难堪。从日后几千年的中国妇女状况来看，这个结局的几率不
太高。
猜想二：因罪犯欺君而满门抄斩。这就极有可能了。皇帝真是个非一般的职业，他们的脾性常常
是喜怒无常甚至不知好歹，有些人明明功大如天却总因些芝麻绿豆的小事情而锒铛入狱。花木兰
连性别都感欺瞒，很难说皇帝老儿心里会不会舒坦！
猜想三：嫁给大将军，成为诰命夫人。如果皇帝开 明，那花小姐的命运极有可能会朝着这个方向
发展。当然，如果花木兰是个美女，皇帝有可能会藏入后宫自己享用，但十几年的仗打下来，花
木兰年纪一定不小，而 且如此骁勇的女人必定缺点女人味，皇帝恐怕没胆量享受！故而，就顺水
推舟做个人情赏给同样剽悍的大将军吧。（嘿嘿，从此这两口子有的打了……）
猜想四：成为著名的化妆指导。十二年女扮男装竟然没被识破，足见这花木兰易容的本领有多
大！不过还有个问题，那时候的男生未免也太纯真了吧，竟然连女人都不认识！可见性知识该大
大的普及！
猜想五：嫁给了村中的农夫，生几个孩子，耕田种地了却余生。这是最靠谱的一种结局，老百姓
都是这么过来的，花木兰也不可能例外。男权社会中，朝廷并不鼓励女人学做花木兰，所以从此
后，再没见过这样的女人。
……
原文：http://suqinbk.blog.sohu.com/111394789.html
Its friday!!
That doesnt mean I will be going out because I am seriously out of $$$. Spent sooooo much in Newyork that I am left with practically 100 USD this month, with 15 more days to go. The I shall not talk about shopping today, which is very painful for me.
Lets talk about my diet problem. Since not alot of people know( and read) my blog, and from my knowledge only you, yes you, LSY, you know who you are, read my blog, I really want to do something about it. I am really stressing out here at BC, so yes, food is my best friend and I wanna kick them all away!!!, for health purpose also.
Yes, people say I do not need to go on diet, but I have the freedom to do so(First amendment). I am not going to care about what other people think cos this time I am going with my inclination(according to Mill). See, I use all my knowledge taught in school.
So, this is my plan, I am trying to cut down on my carbohydrate in take to only one muffin worth of carb, and say 2-3 bowls of granola, cereal or oatmeal. The the rest will all be vegetables or tofu for protein. I am trying to cut down also my meat intake cos the meat here ae injected with hormones...YUCKS!. anw, hopefully this will work???
I need support from you. Yes you. I know you will support me no matter wat. Thank you :)
Quote, Quotes, Quoted Some funny quotes that I heard(or said) in everyday life. (Will be updated frequently)
"Posers go to BU" - Computer in Management class professor(9th March 2009)